In today’s day and age, dating feels like it should be easier because of all the dating apps available to us, but if you’re reading this article then you know that it isn’t all that simple. We live in a consumerist society that makes it easy for people to think that they can just get new partners at the drop of a hat. So what’s the result? A bunch of broken hearts and a bunch of people that feel overwhelmed at the prospect of getting out there and trying to find ‘The One’.
That is why I wanted to write this article for you today. As love and relationship coach, I have seen the power of listening to your intuition when it comes to finding the right match for you…
We all have this amazing power and once we tap into it, everything can change! So how do you do that? I’m glad you asked!
How to listen to your intuition with these 2 simple steps:
For some of us, “listening to your inner voice” might sound all mystical and peculiar, but it’s an ability that we all possess. It’s basically that little voice in your head that tells you that something is going on (whether it is positive or negative), something is going to happen, or that something should be avoided.
It is often referred to as “that gut feeling.” We all experience it, and it’s nothing out of the ordinary. Some of us pay more attention to it than others, but it is a very powerful tool. Many of us actually experience something called cognitive difference, or the psychological phenomenon of feeling a difference between your attitude and your behavior. It is that feeling of discomfort when what you are doing does not correspond to what you know. I’m sure you’ve felt this before at some point. Maybe even in a recent relationship when you knew deep down that it wasn’t right, but you were trying to stick it out anyway. Fortunately, there are exercises that can help you to get more in touch with the little voice inside and steer clear of situations that do not serve you in the future!
Listening to your intuition by getting in tune with your inner self:
I want to clear about something. This isn’t something that just happens at the snap of your fingers. If you aren’t used to listening to your intuition, it’s going to take some time and practice. It’s hard for us to tune out all the noise of our day to day lives and just listen.
We’re so busy running around, trying to do a million things at once, every single day. So, of course, it’s hard to tune in! Have you ever noticed that your dreams are linked to feelings (maybe fears or even desires) that you’re experiencing deep down? That’s all linked to your intuition. Dreams are just one of the ways that our bodies try to make your conscious mind aware of what’s going on deep down. So start by paying attention to what’s going on in your subconscious mind while you sleep!
During your days, I encourage you to set aside time for yourself. We all need some time to relax and regroup, and it’s important to prioritize your own well-being. Even if it’s in the moments you’re beginning your day or when you’re settling down to go to bed, use that quiet time to start listening to your inner voice.
Meditation when getting in touch with your intuition
Meditation is one of the most powerful tools that can help you get in tune with your inner voice. Guided meditation is often the best place to start because it gets you used to the process. It can give you the tools to repeat at home. By the way, there are great guided meditation classes available at yoga studios, but you can also do it right in the comfort of your own home!
You can find them on YouTube or in audiobook form. Once you start to get used to the process, you can begin to do it on your own. Use this quiet time to reflect on what you want, how you feel, what you’d like to change, and remind yourself that you have the power to do so. Another great tool is journaling. Writing down how you’re really feeling and what you truly want can help you to visualize it. The more time you spend visualizing something, the easier it becomes to attract it into your life.
This is where the power of attraction comes into play. Once you know what you want and what you are looking for, the easier it will be to listen to your intuition. You have to have a clear idea of your goals so that you can determine whether or not your current actions and situations are in line with them or not.
The power of attraction when you want to find your soulmate
When you get a clearer picture of what exactly you want in a partner and relationship, you can begin to use the power of attraction. I’m sure you’ve heard of this before but on the off chance that maybe you haven’t, the power of attraction is the concept that you attract the same kind of energy that you put out.
For example, if you have a loving, inviting, positive energy about you, you will attract loving, inviting, and positive energy into your life. On the flip side, if you have a stressful, uncomfortable, and maybe even aggressive energy about you, that is exactly what you will attract. I bring this up because it’s very important to be compassionate with yourself in this process. Even if you want to find your soulmate more than anything, I don’t want you to get frustrated and jaded. Again, this isn’t something that happens overnight. It requires time, investment, patience, and self-love.
By cultivating tools like meditation to help you listen to your intuition and channeling it into the power of attraction, you can start to attract your soulmate into your life. Your intuition will help you to weed out any potential partners that aren’t right for you so that you can be available for The One. Be mindful of your attitude during this process. Like I said, energy attracts energy, so if you’re thinking, ”All men are awful,” or “All women are horrible,” guess what you’re going to be attracting into your life…
The power of positivity should never be underestimated, especially when you’re preparing your life for the arrival of your soulmate! Giving power to your inner voice while cultivating a healthy, positive frame of mind is a recipe for success.
Wishing you all the best in this new chapter of your life.